Manly, masculine, sexist, dominating, chauvinist, misogynist....toxic? Since the rise of the Alt Right and our grabby pussing President a new term, Toxic Masculinity, has entered our pretty little heads. Is it real? Do I have it? Is it catching? Yes, yes and yes. In a host of recent articles writers and thinkers have been trying to explain what's going on. How, in a world supposedly becoming more liberal towards issues around sexuality or race and ethnicity could gender become such a battlefield? And what exactly is the toxic form of masculinity? Is it all masculinity? Is it a modern form? Or some sort of return to a former time before those dastardly liberals got their paws on gender? Yes, yes, and yes again to the latter three. I've read a fair few pieces on man poison and often there's a conflation of many ideas. Yet at the same time, paradoxically, they are all part of the same issue. So ...